Sextortion is a growing form of online blackmail where criminals use intimate images, videos, or personal information to extort victims. Defined by the Metropolitan Police as “financially motivated sexual extortion,” sextortion often begins with seemingly innocent online interactions—but can quickly escalate into devastating emotional and financial abuse.
In this guide, we explore what sextortion is, how it happens, why cases are rising—especially among boys—and how age verification and digital safeguards can help prevent these crimes.
How Sextortion Happens: A Common Scenario
A typical sextortion case might start with a teenage boy chatting online with someone he believes to be a girl. After exchanging messages, he’s convinced to share intimate photos or participate in a live video chat.
But the person on the other end isn’t a genuine romantic interest—it’s a criminal or organised group. These groups may:
- Use trafficked individuals to commit the fraud
- Impersonate others through catfishing (using fake online identities)
- Employ AI-generated deepfake content to build false trust
Once the victim shares compromising material, the blackmail begins. Criminals may demand:
- More explicit content
- Payments via Bitcoin, gift cards, or other untraceable methods
- Threats to share the content with family, friends, or social media followers
In many cases, the child’s school or welfare officer is only alerted when victims reach out to helplines like Childline, triggering safeguarding protocols.
The Rise in Sextortion Cases
Global authorities and charities are raising red flags about the sharp rise in sextortion, especially among boys aged 14–18.
- In 2023, the US National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC) received 26,718 sextortion reports—a 149% increase from the previous year.
- In the UK, the Internet Watch Foundation found that 91% of sextortion victims in 2023 were male.
- Reports of confirmed child sexual abuse involving sextortion increased 257% in the first half of 2023 compared to all of 2022.
These statistics highlight the urgent need for preventative action.
How to Prevent Sextortion: Education & Age Assurance
Step 1: Awareness and Education
Building awareness is the first step. Parents, schools, and digital platforms must:
- Educate users—especially teens—on online grooming tactics
- Encourage safe online behavior and open communication
- Provide confidence to seek help if something goes wrong
But awareness alone is not enough. Many victims knew the risks—but still fell victim. That’s where platforms come in.
Step 2: Age Assurance on Online Platforms
To protect users—particularly minors—online platforms must verify user age before allowing access or interaction with others.
✔️ Age Verification
Age can be confirmed using official data sources like:
- Government-issued ID
- Credit reference bureaus
- Mobile phone numbers
- Credit/debit cards
✔️ Age Estimation
Where privacy is a higher priority, platforms can estimate age using:
- Facial age estimation (AI-driven)
- Email-based age signals
These methods offer privacy-preserving solutions that do not store personal data, but still deliver high accuracy.
Depending on the platform’s risk level, some services may need full ID confirmation—particularly for dating sites or chat services that allow older teens.
18Verified Helps Prevent Sextortion
At 18Verified, we provide advanced age verification and age estimation technology to help platforms meet regulatory standards and protect users from grooming and sextortion threats.
Our system is:
- ✅ Easy to integrate
- ✅ Fully privacy-compliant
- ✅ Cost-effective with a subscription model
- ✅ Certified to PAS 1296:2018 standards
Whether you need basic age checks or full identity verification, we have a solution to suit your platform.
Protect Your Platform — Protect Your Users
Sextortion is a serious and growing threat. By implementing strong age assurance, your business can:
- Prevent grooming and abuse
- Protect your reputation
- Comply with the Online Safety Bill and other international regulations
- Create a safer internet for all
👉 Talk to our team today to see how 18Verified can help your platform implement effective safeguards.
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